Save yourself from verbal abuse

Why are people verbally abusive. I'd say they have personal insecurities.
I always try to live in the solution; not the problem.
Some want to dwell on the problem; so counterproductive
It's important to pray for the offender, so that they may be uplifted by God's love.
They also can be very self-centered and set in their ways.
I try to be open to others opinions and points of few; it works for me.
Life's too short to waste on resentments; besides it's been proven resentments lead to diseases such as cancer and heart disease.
So, my fellow readers, try to keep your chin up and look at the sunny side of those uncomfortable times and counter them by realizing it's not worth your own negative reactions, just start meditating and expressing your feelings in a calm/ rationale manner.